Resurrection vs. Reincarnation

When I was in college, about a year after my friend Becky was killed in a car accident, I thought I saw her in the grocery store. She was standing further down an aisle from where I stood with my shopping cart. I remember turning my cart toward her, with the intent of approaching her and saying hello when I suddenly remembered that Becky had died.

I thought, Wait! Did she die? Maybe I just dreamt she died.

I stood there, still, while my brain wrestled with reality. The great debate on whether Becky was alive or dead. By the time I quasi-convinced myself that Becky had indeed died – by assuring myself that if Becky was still alive after all, we would laugh about this the next time we saw each other — the Shopping Becky had moved onto the next aisle.

This experience has remained vivid in my memory and just today, has gotten me thinking about resurrection.

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The Roman Catholic faith believes in the resurrection of Jesus Christ, the Son of God. We also believe that through His resurrection, Jesus opened the doors for the rest of us to achieve eternal life.

As a child, the thought of eternal life in heaven, didn’t seem that appealing. We learned that heaven was a perfect place where everyone is happy. I associated “happy” with getting everything I wished for and I pictured heaven itself as a bunch of clouds that people — dead people — stood around in. Picture this: twenty-or-so people, all dressed in white, standing in a circle about a foot away from each other, on top of some clouds. One of the people is me and someone has just delivered to me yet another white cake with white icing. That was how I pictured my heaven. I used to think, can’t we at least sit down sometimes? Won’t I get sick of white cake with white icing after a while?

Now that I’m an adult, I wonder, what does eternal life really mean?

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My eighth grade religion teacher thought that heaven and eternal life might be like being asleep but having a really good dream. Your dreams would be filled with all the positive things you did in your life, times when you helped others and had a positive influence on the lives of others and the world. The dream would keep repeating on a reel that never stopped. Hell, she thought, might be the very opposite. In hell, you were asleep but having a nightmare where you continually watched how, in your lifetime you had hurt people, caused pain and were a negative influence in the lives of others and a destructive force in the world.

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Ever since I saw the 1975 movie, The Reincarnation of Peter Proud, I have been intrigued with the possibility of reincarnation. I was only twelve when the movie was produced and I don’t know how old I was when I watched it on late-night television, but it certainly made an impact on me and my beliefs about reincarnation. That our spiritual life continues to live on in the body of another. And, if I were Buddhist, perhaps in the body of an animal.

I’ve been told that Catholics don’t believe in reincarnation. But why not? Why couldn’t reincarnation be what God means by eternal life?

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If you know me, you certainly know that I’m not the most informed Catholic in the world and because I’m not the most learned person of either the Catholic faith or Christianity in general, I have taken to my trusted friend, the Internet, to educate myself on what the Catholic Church believes about reincarnation.

I am a bit dumbfounded in what I read. First, I learned that I was correct, the Catholic Church does not believe in reincarnation. (Remember, though, that it wasn’t until quite recently that the Church accepted cremation in lieu of burial of our deceased.) Moreover, I learned that the Catholic faith is steadfast in its belief that Christians will be resurrected in the same body they had on Earth. I can’t understand why Catholics – and I purport to be one – believe that our physical bodies are as important as our souls. I guess I wasn’t paying much attention during my twelve years of parochial school religion classes!

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Okay. So if we are all resurrected in the body we had while alive on Earth, are we resurrected in the body we had at the time of our deaths or do get to choose whether it’s the body we had when we were nineteen, the one we had when we were forty, or the one we have when we die at the age of 120 years? And what about all the children who die in infancy or childhood? Are they like Peter Pan and remain children in the afterlife? Questions! Questions!

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Here are some of my arguments supporting the theory of reincarnation.

00 Reincarnation would explain why some people are considered “old souls”. Because this life isn’t their first rodeo. Maybe this is their twentieth life! And maybe you retain some of the knowledge and wisdom you gained in your previous lives when you proceed to your next one.

00 Reincarnation explains déjà vu’. I’ll admit that I haven’t experienced this phenomenon for a long while but when I was a kid and teenager, I had feelings of déjà vu’ pretty regularly. If I’ve been reincarnated, maybe I am experiencing something that I’ve experienced – and vaguely remember – from a previous life.

00 Reincarnation may also explain why sometimes we have an instant affinity for or take an instant dislike to a person we’ve only just met. Maybe we’ve had some dealings with these people in a previous life.

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Don’t you wonder sometimes, if your deceased loved ones are trying to communicate with us from the great beyond, about what to expect after we die? Maybe my dad right now, as I’m writing this, is sending me signs – signs I’m completely oblivious to – about life after death. In fact, maybe he’s urging me not to post this article because it won’t go over very well with God. On the other hand, maybe Dad is encouraging me to use the mind God gave me to look for the answers I seek.

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Maybe it really was Becky in the grocery store all those years ago. Maybe she appeared to me that day because she wanted me to think of her, to remember her.  (I’ve always thought that our deceased loved ones are comforted whenever someone thinks about them or prays for them. That’s why it’s important to pray for all of our deceased family and friends often.)

In the end. I guess that’s when we find out what happens in the end. Right? In the end.

12 thoughts on “Resurrection vs. Reincarnation”

  1. Good to see you writing again. I do believe we reincarnate to learn the lessons we missed in previous lives. We continue to grow with each life becoming old souls when reincarnation ends and you are perfect for eternal life.

    Catholic Schools 16 years.
    Guess I didn’t learn.

  2. Jill please talk to God every day. I am not talking about praying, but just talking to him. He will make it clear to you. Karen and the twins taught me a lot and I am closer to God now then ever. That’s right…. I learned from my kids. I believe the Bible (all of it). We did not have to read it in school. I do not even think I had a bible. I have one now and I read it. If you accept Jesus in your life, you will have eternal life.

    1. Jeffrey, first, you did indeed have your own Bible while you were at Watterson; it was required. Second, I am not questioning God’s existence in my essay, I am reflecting on what eternal life entails. Remember, the Bible was written by men, not Jesus or God. In addition, for centuries it has been men, not Jesus or God, who have interpreted the Bible. Every man is different, therefore, to some degree, every person’s interpretation of the Bible will be different. And finally, I do talk to God every day; what makes you think I don’t? He has yet to make it clear to me what happens after we die.

      I trust that we can disagree and still get along, bro. Love you!

  3. Yay! You are back to your blog! I was so happy to see it this morning! ❤️
    I love the way you get our minds thinking! I truly believe that Dad has contacted me numerous times. He lets me know he is there through my radio in my car. Mom has been in my car twice when it has happened. He turned my radio on or off. It’s not due to a bumpy road either. The last time it happened, Mom was with me and my car was in park and the radio turned on.

  4. Why does it always feel as if you can read my mind? We think so much alike on most levels.

    I swear, I just had this conversation (for what felt like the 100th time). This time it was with my dad. Are we all reunited in heaven? If so, are we the age we were when we die or do our loved ones see us at the age we were when they died, or are we the age were when we felt the happiest…and how does this all work with everyone else if we’re all different ages?

    My mom thought heaven was a state of peace. That’s calming. To see a movie over and over again, even if it was about the good that I’ve done on earth, sounds exhausting. But perhaps it is that I fear the movie would be really short! Nevertheless, “forever” sounds exhausting.

    If we’re reincarnated, then our loved ones couldn’t reach out to us from heaven, nor would our prayers for their eternal rest in heaven make sense – though it does explain the feeling of deja vu.

    What if life is one big play (a test, if you will) and everyone is an actor except for you?

    “In the end,” we are all human and are trying to put everything in a humanistic context. For me, heaven remains a mystery.

    -K
    P.S. A fun, old movie about heaven is Defending Your Life (and Bruce Almighty, which has a good message)

  5. Wow, Jill. You introduced some thought provoking questions. I have also experienced deja vu and have wondered if I lived in another life. I also wonder sometimes if my dad is guiding me in decisions I am making. Very interesting! You should ask my sister Amy about the time she was driving in Lancaster, Ohio and Charlie, just a little guy at the time, blurted out some comment about his wife dying. I don’t remember the story well enough to tell it, but you should ask Amy. I’ve missed your blog ❤️

    1. Yes! I’ll have to talk to Amy! She needs to write that down so she remembers. It’s eerie. When she and Bill meet Charlie’s betrothed, they’ll probably wonder…

      1. Hi Jill,
        Great discussion. I think I did write this story down and perhaps, someday, I’ll find the scrap of paper it’s on. In any case, my Charlie is a bright and thoughtful soul and has always been talkative. When he was 4 or 5, he drove around with me for my work and we had great discussions. I must’ve asked him if he wanted to get married someday. Instead of what you might think a young child might say (ie I want to marry you Mommy, or I’ll marry our neighbor Sydney), his reply was “One time, when I lived before and I lived in South America, I had a wife. But she died. And I was sad.” !!!!
        So, these things do make you think. Love you.

        1. Wow! Incredible! Even at ten years old, I’m not sure Meghan knows there’s a South America! It will be interesting if Charlie ends up marrying a Latina. Thanks for sharing!

  6. Good article Jill. I have had things happen in the past about people, places and things seeming familiar and it is an eerie feeling but if I have one now it’s because every place, every person and everything is familiar!! My tribe is quite small now and the older I get I like it like having everything familiar. I know I am getting shallow but I like it like that!

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